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Hilda Dokubo Says Getting A BBL For A Man Is A Total Waste Of Time
Speaking about the rising popularity of Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) surgery, veteran Nollywood actress Hilda Dokubo stated that women, particularly aspiring actresses, shouldn’t feel under pressure to find approval in their physical appearance.
In an interview with Punch, Hilda claimed that young women who change their bodies to draw attention or win over men are wasting their time.
She said, “People who enhance their bodies because they don’t have self-worth or need to build their confidence, if it is going to help you achieve that, and it is something you can afford without hurting anyone, it is your prerogative.
“But if you think the only reason for reworking your body is because you want to show men shege, which men are you showing shege? If you ask these men to choose between a natural body and BBL, which would you take? If you ask 10 men, nine will tell you natural body.
“So, if it is because of a man that you are doing BBL, you are just wasting your time. Have you heard of any man who decided that because of a woman, he is going to cut any part of his body?”
“In a woman’s life, there are phases, and every phase comes with its peculiar challenges. You are the one who will decide how to recreate your situation so that no phase of your life brings you down and no phase makes you begin to think that you need anyone’s approval to be a contented human being or a happy woman.
“You don’t need to do this because you want to show everybody, or because that is the only way you can find peace. These are the phases in your life that God has made, and there is nothing you can do about it.
“Live a very happy life, be contented with yourself and pursue your dreams. Every woman is bigger than her body. The body is just a small thing.”
“I don’t think that it is also right to associate what they are doing with the reason for leaving their marriage. I don’t think so.”
I completely agree with Hilda Dokubo’s statement. Pursuing a BBL or any cosmetic procedure solely for a man is a waste of time and self-worth. True confidence and happiness come from within, and making decisions based on personal desires rather than external validation is the right approach. It’s important to prioritize self-love and authenticity over societal expectations or the opinions of others.
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